GRRRRR!
Oh am I pissed! I was going through my blogroll and saw that my ex had updated his recently. (they usually pop to the top of the list when they've been updated)
Now to those of you not in the know... I get along fine with my ex. I still consider him a good friend, and all indications point to him returning those feelings. All in all a good situation. We can still talk about things and we know each other well enough to avoid any problem spots. Heck, last time I checked I still got along fine with his wife as well.
But I guess that his mother-in-law has a problem with this.
How do I know this? Because she's trying to flame me in the comments section of his blog.
What's worse is that as far as I can tell, she's only started looking at his blog in the past few weeks. This woman has absolutely no idea of the friendshp that we still have, and she's trying to implicate that I can't let go and am obsessed. And she's doing it based on the fact that I can usually leave a comment pretty quick on his blog when he posts.
Hello... that's what blogrolling is about. Keeping track of the blogs that you watch and letting you know in some way when they have been updated. Anybody who checks this page several times a day will see the blogroll list in the sidebar change as the blogs get updated. I just use a frames version that I can open via a bookmark.
Grrrrr.
It's been about an hour since I first saw that comment, and I am still fuming. I already sent an email to my ex asking him to inform her of the situation, but who knows if she will listen.
I guess it would have been better if I could see that she'd looked at any of my stuff and been able to twist and construe it in any way to say I was trying to get hims back or was obsessed. But my statcounter suggests that she made these wild accusations without even looking for something to back them up. And if she'd even looked at ONE of my pages over the past few days she'd have realized that even though I was lamenting about my lonliness, I wasn't invoking the name of the past and was instead looking to the future.
*fume, fume*
Now to those of you not in the know... I get along fine with my ex. I still consider him a good friend, and all indications point to him returning those feelings. All in all a good situation. We can still talk about things and we know each other well enough to avoid any problem spots. Heck, last time I checked I still got along fine with his wife as well.
But I guess that his mother-in-law has a problem with this.
How do I know this? Because she's trying to flame me in the comments section of his blog.
What's worse is that as far as I can tell, she's only started looking at his blog in the past few weeks. This woman has absolutely no idea of the friendshp that we still have, and she's trying to implicate that I can't let go and am obsessed. And she's doing it based on the fact that I can usually leave a comment pretty quick on his blog when he posts.
Hello... that's what blogrolling is about. Keeping track of the blogs that you watch and letting you know in some way when they have been updated. Anybody who checks this page several times a day will see the blogroll list in the sidebar change as the blogs get updated. I just use a frames version that I can open via a bookmark.
Grrrrr.
It's been about an hour since I first saw that comment, and I am still fuming. I already sent an email to my ex asking him to inform her of the situation, but who knows if she will listen.
I guess it would have been better if I could see that she'd looked at any of my stuff and been able to twist and construe it in any way to say I was trying to get hims back or was obsessed. But my statcounter suggests that she made these wild accusations without even looking for something to back them up. And if she'd even looked at ONE of my pages over the past few days she'd have realized that even though I was lamenting about my lonliness, I wasn't invoking the name of the past and was instead looking to the future.
*fume, fume*
posted by Phoenixwaller | 9:03 PM
2 Comments:
you know what, just ignore her. You are better off!!! Do not fuel the fire. I am not sure if you have been to my blog before but if you could go there today and read the 10/19 post I would be so grateful!! You will see why when you read it.
Oh that sucks! Probably hard to just ignore, like Jodes said - its the best bet.
Some people though, nothing better to do than cause problems. Sheesh
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